How to break in a new bridle, without darkening the leather?

You should use a leather balm like Passier or Effax, they don't darken leather. That's what I use for conditioning leather after it is clean :)
I would recommend Lexol preservative and conditioner may help and Obenhauf's is very good as well. I've never had it darken leather! :)
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