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I gave up. I love horses so much, but I can't ride it. I tried so hard to learn how to ride but I am too scared. I think horses are not for me. What can I do?

I gave up. I love horses so much, but I can't ride it. I tried so hard to learn how to ride but I am too scared. I think horses are not for me. What can I do?
Hi Tijjani, I get your fear. I had a very similar situation not so serious but I did. What opened me up was going to my stable to help as a volunteer. Since I was in it for a certain amount of time, I had no choice but work with horses. It really helped and now I’m about to buy my own horse ! Remember, never give up and be strong. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Get into liberty work? Its all from the ground and still fun. Also maybe look into seeing a counsellor or psychologist to help you get a handle on your fear.
Mona Backer is correct! Being around can horses builds up your confidence as well.
I don't know how to stop the fear. I love my horse so much but the fear 😭😭.
What about training? There are plenty of people who don’t love riding but more the training part of it!
Hi Tijjani,
If you are too scared to ride there are many other things to do with horses! You can do ground work, just groom them, walk around with them, it's also really nice to be around them without riding them 🙂